5 ZNAKOV, DA TE TAŠČA SOVRAŽI – IN KAKO SE S TEM SOOČITI

 5 ZNAKOV, DA TE TAŠČA SOVRAŽI – IN KAKO SE S TEM SOOČITI
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1. ŽALITEV ZAKRINKANA V KOMPLIMENT

Zares droben namig, da te ne mara. Na tej točki jo lahko še opravičuješ – verjetno se mi je samo zazdelo, da me je užalila, najbrž ni mislila slabo, verjetno se je samo nerodno izrazila … Ne. Rekla je točno kar je mislila – bodi pozorna na komplimente, kot so »Ta obleka ti pa res paše! Lepo zakrije tvoj trebušček.« To ni kompliment in se ne sme vzeti, kot tak! Priznana psihoterapevtka Amy Morin (avtorica knjige 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do) ti svetuje, da se s taščo v tem primeru soočiš. Odgovori ji »Hvala, ta obleka je nova in me veseli da vam je všeč. Komentar o trebuščku je pa bil nepotreben in celo boleč.« – Opazuj, kako postaja rdeča.

2. NE KAŽE ZANIMANJA ZA TVOJO SLUŽBO ALI HOBIJE

Če delaš v prodajalni z oblačili, si odvetnica, kozmetičarka ali mamica – je ne zanima. Tvoje delo je velik del tvoje identitete in nezanimanje za tvojo službo je enako kot nezanimanje za tebe. V idealnem svetu bi se za to morala zanimati tudi tvoja tašča. Vendar ne skrbi. Dovolj je, da te posluša njen sin ali hči.

3. »POZABI« TE VKLJUČITI V DRUŽINSKE AKTIVNOSTI

Piknik v soboto, za katerega si izvedela .. no .. v soboto? Spet te je pozabila vključiti v družinske aktivnosti in te zgolj zaradi primernosti pokliče le kakšno uro pred piknikom – najverjetneje v upanju da ne prideš? Raje spakiraj nahrbtnik in se z dragim ali drago odpravita na pohajkovanje po Sloveniji. Naslednjič ji seveda pokaži slike vajinega popolnega izleta.

4. GOVORI O PARTNERJEVIH BIVŠIH

In o tem kako so bile tooooliko boljše od tebe. Dr. Daniel Tomasulo priporoča, da jo izzoveš in ji poveš, kako neprimerne in boleče so te izjave. Tako jo boš s svojo iskrenostjo spravila v neprijeten položaj.

5. OPRAVIČI SE TAKO, DA KRIVDO ZVALI NATE

»Oprosti, da si mislila, da me ne zanima tvoja služba.« Čeprav je bila uporabljena beseda »oprosti« pa seveda to ni pravo opravičilo. Morda, se res ni zavedala kako boleče je bilo njeno obnašanje. Daj ji še eno priložnost, da se opraviči – seveda ji pa razloži, zakaj misliš, da težava še ni rešena. Če se bosta iskreno pogovorili vaju lahko to celo poveže.

 

Povzeto po:

Amy Morin, 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do, 2014. 

Romper, znaki

Asiaone, znaki

 

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