MOJA ZVEZA: LJUBEZEN ALI OBSEDENOST??

 MOJA ZVEZA: LJUBEZEN ALI OBSEDENOST??
Deli:

Zveza je lahko nekaj najlepšega, v kolikor v njej prevladuje ljubezen. Še kako hitro pa se lahko spremeni v obsedenost in tako sočloveku (in na koncu tudi sebi) zagreni življenje. Ste se znašli v zvezi, v kateri več ne veste, če vas partner ljubi ali pa je samo obseden z vami? Bodite pozorni na te znake.

Počutite se utesnjeno

Ali želi vaš partner biti z vami 24 ur na dan, pri vseh opravilih, ki bi jih izvajali sami ali s prijatelji? Če želi biti zraven vas ob vsakem koraku in se počutite utesnjeni, je to le znak, da je obseden z vami.

Seveda nič ni slabega, če najdeta skupne hobije in zanimanja, vendar sta partnerja v zdravem razmerju tudi samostojna in vesta biti sama.

Pretirano ljubosumje

Obstaja zdrava meja ljubosumja, pri kateri ni nič spornega. Te zdrave meje pa več ni, ko se zaradi ljubosumja naj ne bi smeli več pogovarjati z osebo nasprotnega spola. Če je partner šel tako daleč, da vas je prosil, da prekinete stike z osebami nasprotnega spola ali pa vam je v skrajnem primeru to celo  ”prepovedal”, je to jasen znak, da gre za obsedenost in ne več za zdravo razmerje!

Ne zaupa vam

Ste se odpravili po nakupih (po dolgem času končno sami) in vam nenehno teži, kje ste in ali je kdo zraven vas? Vam celo na skrivaj pregleduje telefon? Nezaupanje izhaja  iz ljubosumja in straha, da bi ga prevarali ali zapustili.

Če vas nenehno preverja in sprašuje, kje in s kom ste bili, je več kot očitno obseden z vami in si vas želi nadzirati. Tega ne smete dopustiti!

”Ne” zanj ni odgovor

Vam je znano? Za vašega partnerja odgovor ”ne” ne obstaja. Če odklonite povabilo bodisi zaradi tega, ker vas v tistem trenutku aktivnost ne zanima ali pa že počnete nekaj drugega, vas pa še vedno prepričuje ali celo sili, da se mu pridružite, to za zvezo ne pomeni nič dobrega.

Partner ne bi smel kuhati mule, če mu ne ugodite pri vsaki stvari. V zvezi, kjer prevladuje ljubezen, sprejmemo partnerjevo odločitev.

Če opazite, da partner počne katero od zgoraj naštetih stvari, še raje enkrat premislite, če je ta zveza še zdrava in kako se sploh počutite v njej. Ljubezni in obsedenosti z osebo ne smemo zamenjevati, saj lahko obsedenost privede celo do nasilja.

 

 

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Kivi

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