KAKO PREPOZNATI PASIVNO-AGRESIVNO OSEBO?

 KAKO PREPOZNATI PASIVNO-AGRESIVNO OSEBO?
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Ali se tudi vi opažate, da vam interakcija z nekaterimi osebami pobere veliko več energije, kot z drugimi? Ali se po druženju počutite slabo in čustveno izčrpano? Vse to je lahko znak, da imate opravka s pasivno-agresivno osebo. Preberite članek in ugotovite, ali je prisotna tudi v vašem življenju.

SUBTILNE ŽALITVE

Čeprav je odkrito žalitev lahko prepoznati, pa se zaplete pri subtilnih žalitvah, ki so pogosto prekrite z (lažnim) komplimentom. Kompliment lahko vsebuje primerjavo z drugo osebo/predmetom in vas očitno postavi na drugo mesto, kar bo v vas zbudilo občutek nezadovoljstva. Na primer: Odlično si opravil/a delo, skoraj tako dobro kot_____.  Pasivno-agresivna oseba bo prekrito komentirala tudi vaše najšibkejše točke, ker ve, da vas bo zadela tam, kjer vas najbolj boli.

TRMA

Trma je lahko koristna osebnostna lastnost pri doseganju ciljev in zagovarjanju lastnega stališča, pasivno-agresivna oseba pa jo velikokrat uporabi zgolj zato, da določeno osebo kaznuje ali razjezi. Neskončni agresivni argumenti, s katerimi oseba strastno zagovarja stališče s katerimi se vi več kot očitno ne strinjate in izsiljevanje vašega mnenja, so pokazatelj provokacije in privabljanja pozornosti.

IGNORANCA

Če se večkrat zgodi, da vas določena oseba ”prezre” na hodniku, čeprav zagotovo veste, da vas je videla ali če na sestanku namenoma presliši vse vaše komentarje je lahko pokazatelj pasivno-agresivnega obnašanja. Čeprav se oseba obnaša, kot da ignoranca ni namerna, boste ugotovila, da se določeni vzorec ponavlja in, da vas z ignoriranjem želi namerno užaliti ali pridobiti vašo pozornost.

NEIZPOLNJENE OBVEZNOSTI

Čeprav se nam v hitrem tempu življenja vsem kdaj pa kdaj zgodi, da ne moremo izpolniti določene obveznosti, je razlika, če oseba namerno ne izpolnjuje danih obveznosti, kar pa vpliva na celotno skupino ali kolektiv. Izogibanje in prelaganje odgovornosti, brez konkretnega razloga je lahko znak pasivno-agresivnega obnašanja.

KAKO SE ODZVATI?

Kako se soočiti s pasivno-agresivno osebo? Najučinkovitejši pristop je, da vedenje ignorirate in se pretvarjate, da ga ne opazite. Če se ne boste razburjali in sekirali in boste vidno pomirjeni, bo oseba uvidela, da njeno ravnanje na vas ne vpliva. Če ignoriranje ne zaleže, ali je za vas pretežko, je najbolje, da se od osebe oddaljite.

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Jagoda

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